An Overview of Reflexive/Pronominal Verbs:
Reflexive verbs have a pronoun as part of the infinitive and appear with the pronoun in the dictionary, e.g.: despertarse , acostarse . Reflexive verbs correspond to "do something to/with/for oneself" in English. When using reflexive verbs, the pronominal element must agree with the subject (i.e. refer to the same person) who receives, experiences or benefits from the action, e.g.: yo me lavo las manos , tú te bañas, nosotros nos sentimos bien.
The reflexive pronouns are illustrated in the present tense in the following table, using the verb divertirse ("to have fun"; "amuse oneself"):
Present tense
Translation
yo me divierto
"I have fun"
tú te diviertes
"you have"
él/ella/usted se divierte
"he, she has fun"; "you have fun"
nosotros nos divertimos
"we have fun"
vosotros os divertís
"you have fun"
ellos/ellas/ustedes se divierten
"they have fun"; "you have fun"
Common Reflexive/Pronominal Verbs
Be sure to familiarize yourself with common reflexive verbs, such as:
acordarse ("to remember")
acostarse ("to go to bed/lie down")
apurarse ("to hurry")
arrepentirse ("to regret")
atreverse ("to dare")
bañarse ("to bathe oneself")
casarse ("to get married")
darse cuenta de ("to notice/realize")
despertarse ("to wake up")
dormirse ("to fall asleep")
ducharse ("to take a shower")
enojarse ("to get angry")
irse ("to go away/leave")
llamarse ("to be called")
lavarse ("to wash oneself")
levantarse ("to get up")
maquillarse ("to do one's makeup")
peinarse ("to do one's hair")
ponerse de acuerdo ("to agree on")
preguntarse ("to wonder")
preocuparse ("to worry")
quedarse ("to stay")
quejarse de ("to complain about")
quitarse ("to take off")
sentarse ("to sit down")
sentirse ("to feel")
When talking about body parts in Spanish, use a reflexive verb rather than possessive pronouns as in English, e.g.:
Me lavo las manos , NOT Lavo mis manos to say "I am washing my hands."
Se pinta las uñas , NOT Pinta sus uñas to say "She paints her nails."
Write yo recuerdo , but yo me acuerdo. R ecordar ("to remind") is NOT a reflexive verb.
Some common reflexive verbs can also be used non-reflexively as long as they appear with an object, usually another person, e.g.:
Reflexive verb
Reflexive Phrase
Non-reflexive Verb
Non-reflexive Phrase
vestirse
Nos vestimos para la fiesta.
vestir
Mi mamá viste a la niña para la fiesta.
despertarse
Ella se despierta temprano.
depertar
Tú me despiertas a mí a las 7 de la mañana.
pintarse
Los payasos se pintan las caras.
pintar
Les pinto las caras de los niños.
bañarse
Te bañas cada día.
bañar
Tus padres te bañas cuando estás enfermo.
llamarse
Él se llama Jorge.
llamar
Él nos llama por teléfono.
quitarse
Se quitan los abrigos al entrar a la casa.
quitar
Mis padres me quitan a mí el libro.
preguntarse
Os preguntáis qué hay en las noticias hoy.
preguntar
Nosotros preguntamos al profesor, a ver si sabe.
However, some verbs are ALWAYS reflexive and cannot be used without a reflexive pronoun, e.g.: arrepentirse, atreverse, darse cuenta de, ponerse de acuerdo, quejarse de.
Placement of Reflexive Pronouns
Reflexive pronouns are usually placed in front of the verb, e.g.: no me dormía. The pronouns are also attached to the end of the verb in the following conditions: infinitives , e.g.: Quiero dormirme (also correct to say Me quiero dormir ); present progressive , e.g.: Estoy maquillándome (also correct to say Me estoy maquillando ); and affirmative commands , e.g.: Levántate (pronouns MUST be attached to the end of affirmative commands).
Note that when the pronouns are attached to affirmative commands and the present progressive , you need to add an accent, e.g.: ¡Há blame!
Questions about Pronominal Verbs
Q: Why is it yo me acuerdo and NOT yo acuerdo ?
R: Acordarse is a reflexive verb, while recordar is not.
Q: Why is it tú te bañas and NOT tú se bañas ?
R: Remember that the reflexive pronoun (te ) must agree with (i.e. refer to the same person as) the subject of the verb (tú ).
Q: Why is it ellos se lavan las manos and NOT ellos llavan sus manos ?
R: With body parts, use a pronominal verb, such as lavar se . Note also that you should use a determiner, las , rather than a possessive, sus .
Q: Why is it yo me enojo and NOT yo enojo to say "I get angry"?
R: The verb enojarse is reflexive and so must appear with a reflexive pronoun that agrees with the subject. Enojar and other reflexive verbs can be used non-refelxively if they appear with an object, e.g.: Yo enojo a mi hermano . ("I make my brother angry.")
Q: Why is it Me arrepiento de haber ido ahí and NOT Arrepiento de haber ido ahí ?
R: This is simply one of those verbs that is always reflexive and so it has to be used with a reflexive pronoun.
I lie down. = Yo ? .
They wonder if she will help them. = Ellos ? si ella les ayudará.
He thinks we should sit down. = Él piensa que debemos ? .
Every day she wakes up at 7. = Todos los días ella ? a las 7.